Let go of expectations: Restart your career today!

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For women who had access to a good education and enjoyed successful careers, it can sometimes be very hard to return to the workforce after a career-break. One woman’s story will show you why it needn’t be that hard.

Worried about how to restart your career? The idea that we must get back to work after a break can be daunting for most mothers. For every minute, hour, month, or year of work experience that we may have racked up before our break, a break is a break and the world does move on without us while we were gone. We have to remember that the only constant we can count on is change.

For women who had access to a good education and enjoyed successful careers that we walked away from to focus on new developments in our personal lives, it can sometimes be very hard to return to the workforce after a career-break.

What we expect from potential employers based on our wealth of experience does not always match what companies or institutions consider appropriate for someone returning to a job that has evolved substantially since we last had it. Offers that comprise lower salaries or a lower rung on the jungle-gym of the company set-up can offend our sentiments.

So, here is the story of Geetha Chogule’s journey as told to JobsForHer.com, a portal to enable women to restart their careers. A mother of two in Baltimore, she took a break for 20 years and then chose to restart her career at an Ivy League University, first as a volunteer, which eventually translated into a staff position at the Dean’s office.

Geetha Chogule’s journey

I took a break from my job two days before my first child was born. The break lasted 20 years – till both my children went to college. At the point that I restarted, it was less of what could be called ‘work’, and more a way to get back out in public life to redefine myself as something other than a mother and a wife.

After graduating from college 25 years earlier as an electrical engineer, I had worked at various defence companies in software design. Once my children were born I was lucky enough to have the choice to stay at home with them. The time that I spent with my children was invaluable and something that I would not trade for anything. I can also say that after being at home and raising children full time, I felt like a job was a piece of cake!

During my time at home I remained very active in my children’s education and extracurricular activities through PTA volunteer positions, helping in the classrooms as a math tutor, substitute-teaching, and participating as a speaker/panel participant to encourage students to follow engineering career-paths. I also continued to take classes at the local college to remain up to date with computer skills.

When I decided to get back into the job market, I began by exploring various career options. I considered teaching, and joined a graduate program for certification in teaching high-school mathematics.

At the same time, I approached the local Ivy League university in my area to see what sorts of volunteer opportunities might exist. After hearing of my engineering background I was directed to speak to the Dean of Science Education.

I began helping out with the Women in Science and Engineering program (WiSE) on campus. My first tasks were small administrative duties.  My dedication and persistence led to the creation of a short-term position to help run a program with the Dean’s Office.

This was followed by a few years of on-and-off positions, during which I persisted in my commitment to stick with the university – whether it was in volunteer duties or small paid tasks.

Eventually, my experience, and knowledge of internal university processes led to a solid staff position. Over time, I have proven myself in the quality of my work and my ability to work well with people at all levels, from administrators, to faculty, staff, and students. My superiors are now happy to provide me with opportunities to be involved in grant projects that come their way or openings for any department projects.

Restart your career, back to work

In my position I am able to create my own hours and choose projects in which I am interested. This allows me to put passion into my work. I have realized that when you love what you do – it is not work.

Challenges I faced when restarting:

  1. My degree in electrical engineering seemed irrelevant since technology had moved so far ahead beyond my training. But my science background was still there and it gave me enough to rebuild a career.
  2. I rebuilt my usefulness using skills that I developed from being an older, more mature person. It was amazing to realize that there were other skills that I had developed being a stay-at-home mom. I was the CEO and CFO of my family – there are a lot of management duties learned in these roles! E.g., time-management, working with ability levels of the people in your household, managing children at each age level – the list is endless.
  3. Initially, I was an older person doing work that would normally be given to someone with lower qualifications, and also younger/a fresh graduate. I had to accept that people with my degree had moved on to higher positions and that I was starting from the bottom.
  4. One also has to learn to work with a supervisor – luckily everyone I worked with turned out to be wonderful!

How restarting my career affected me and those around me

Since my children were grown and out of the house, I saw very little negative effect. Once I started working I became a more interesting person and was able to talk to my family about my experiences at work. We all had stories to share.

Advice that I would like to give other women who wish to restart their careers

Take your time to figure out the following:

  1. What you really want to do – the kind of job or career that you would be willing to commit a huge amount of dedication to in the form of extra effort, without receiving immediate acknowledgement or gratitude – because, it can take a while before you see positive results.
  2. Your choice of career and how it can work given your circumstances
  3. Be willing to be patient and committed – WHEN, not IF things are not going as planned. Remember, you have been out of the work force for a while and you need to prove that you can compete and be as productive as those who have spent a lifetime working!
  4. Most importantly: BE PERSISTENT. Don’t give up if it’s not easy. You have to really, really want to do this. It’s not just going to happen.

As Geetha has shown us, the path back to work can require a shift in our natural response to the job-market mechanism. HR recruiters have said the same: what recruiters look for in women returnees and urge women to consider the value of scaling back a bit, in the long run.

BuzzingBubs is also happy to enable women to restart their careers and has opened up a Work-from-Home Volunteer position at JobsForHer – to know more and apply, visit: Volunteer at BuzzingBubs

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